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REFUGEE
TURNS DISADVANTAGE TO TORONTO YOUTH’S ADVANTAGE
By
Sophie Vandenberg
Ben Osei is turning his disadvantage to the
advantage of young people in Toronto.
A Ghanaian refugee who is separated from his own
children, including a 3-year-old daughter whom he has never
seen, Osei works with youths in one of the poorest neighborhoods
in Toronto, many of whom come from fatherless homes.
“There is violence and shooting. Nobody wants to get involved in their lives.
A lot are just living with their mom,” he says.
“Their mothers or [both] parents are working in the
factories, and kids are left to find their own way.”
Osei’s work is funded by a partnership of churches,
including Baptist, Pentecostal, and the Salvation Army, as well
as Friendship Community Christian Reformed Church, Toronto.
Osei, whose own future is shaky, says he
has applied for refugee status in Canada on compassionate and
humanitarian grounds but has been living in limbo for four years
and is currently facing a removal order pending the outcome of
his immigration status. He
fears for his safety should he return to Ghana.
“[We are] working feverishly to have his removal
stopped,” said Rev. Fred Witteveen, pastor of Friendship CRC.
Meanwhile, Osei offers Toronto youths
companionship, guidance, and focus.
“I live right in the community.
I’m in a role like a surrogate father,” he says.
While a number of the girls have started attending
Friendship Community CRC and some of the boys have started going
to the Baptist church, Osei says his immediate focus is on
building trust. More
than 50 boys and 20 girls participate in Osei’s basketball
program. ‘Instead
of just running around, they know they have basketball at least
every week,” he says. Some of the girls have also joined Friendship’s choir and
become involved in craft activities.
“He has a unique way of touching kids,
especially using African sorties,” says Witteveen.
Osei uses traditional Ghanaian fables to reach youth at
their level. “The
stories are fiction but have a moral to them,” he explains.
Thought his own future is in question, Osei
is concerned for the future of the young people he works with.
“It is very stressful, but I just have to pray for the
kids. I’m hoping
that now that adults are involved in their lives they will grow
up to be responsible,” he says.
From The Banner, September
2003. Used by permission.
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